Cathy Xinman’s poem “Love Never” stands as a testament to the enduring nature of love that transcends imperfections and hardships. Pancouver is publishing this poem in advance Mother’s Day to invite readers to reflect on the profound impact of unwavering support and deep connections.
In literary studies, an archetype refers to a universal symbol, theme, character type, or narrative pattern that exists across various cultures and literary works. These archetypes resonate deeply with readers because they embody fundamental human experiences and emotions. Literary archetypes also enhance our appreciation of literature by revealing the shared human experiences that transcend time and culture.
Xinman’s poem can be interpreted as embodying the archetype of the nurturing, selfless caregiver, often referred to as the “Great Mother” in various mythologies. This archetype symbolizes unconditional love, protection, and the sustenance of life.
Love – Never
No, never —
I will never give you stones.
Whether in riches or in poverty,
My love for you is beyond compare.
First, be still —
Let your heart beat.
You must hear it pounding loud,
The thud of its pulse,
Its unceasing sound.
Be stirred —
Stirred in your chest,
Stirred in your heart,
In what your breath depends upon.
No, never —
I will never withhold from you.
You are meant to have
The most precious thing on earth.
No, never —
I will never let it be in vain,
Your journey through this world.
I may not be good,
But I love you.
You need not compare yourself to others.
You are meant to rejoice —
Because I love you deeply.
My love —
It rests on your chest,
On your hands, your lips,
Before your feet.
It follows where you go.
It is the treasure of the earth:
Mothers, children,
The first cry of newborn infants.
No, never —
Though I am not perfect,
I know that I love you,
And I will nourish you with the best.
Spread your arms wide —
All you need is to soar.
I am here, I am there,
At the horizon, before your eyes.
You will never be alone.
No, never —
Though I am small,
I am full of longing.
You need only be brave.
Life is full of struggle,
Filled with helplessness.
But no, never —
I will never let life
Fail love.
Cathy Xinman’s English-language collection is entitled Where You Love Yourself. Find it on Amazon. Follow Pancouver on Instagram @PancouverMedia and on Bluesky @pancouver.
